How To Finger A Girl

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2010-08-21T20:33:00.000-04:00

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The best places to Finger

2010-08-21T20:32:00.001-04:00

One of the mailbag questions was "Can I finger a girl on the dance floor?" That's a risky proposition. Privacy, of course, is at a premium when you're hooking up with a girl. At a dance, on a bench in public, at a door step, these are NOT ideal locations for fingering!

You want to find a private spot where one thing can lead to another. No, you don't need to hide in a broom closet (though that can be a good option in a pinch) but if you're at a party, maybe check some of the bedrooms and lock the door. Fingering a girl might lead to other things, like oral or regular sex. Double check to make sure that you are alone in the room though, you never know who might have the same idea and has their own makeout session in the corner.

If you can't get a private room, you may want to seek the cover of darkness outside. Be careful of getting spotted by party-goers, neighbors, cops, etc. The woods can be good, but wild animals can freak your girl out. Also you'll have dirt, twigs, and thorns to deal with. Ideally you can find a nice safe neighborhood with some nooks and crannies to camp out in on your way to Vagina Town.

Another great option is inside your car, or a friend's car. You can finger a girl with as much privacy as you want, and you can also change location if necessary (patrol cars creeping around, wandering peeping Toms, etc). The disadvantage here is that you can often be cramped and uncomfortable. It may be difficult to both face each other because your legs have nowhere to go, yet if you lay down there's not that much room on the narrow seat and it can be difficult to maneuver your hands.

There is no perfect place to finger a girl, but some are better than others. Do some experimentation and find out what works for you.

How To Finger A Girl Pictures

2010-03-03T19:29:00.001-05:00

Here are some images and pictures on how to finger a girl.

How To Finger A Girl: Earth Shattering Orgasms

2008-05-21T05:29:00.003-04:00

I've given some intro and a bunch of info on the basics of how to finger a girl, but it's probably about time to move to the next level.

I know some people are on this site looking for a quick fix, a "magic bullet" if you will. Some of the tips on this site will satisfy that need. You can become a much better lover just by understanding a few things about the female sex anatomy.

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How To Finger A Girl: The G-Spot & Female Ejaculation

2008-04-21T22:17:00.003-04:00

Many guys (and a lot of girls too) may be surprised when figuring out how to finger a girl that females can ejaculate. Females do not ejaculate sperm however, instead they fire off a hot liquid from their urethra.

Female ejaculation is pretty rare, mostly because it is difficult and not everyone knows the technique to produce it. The how to finger a girl here is summed up in one part: the G-spot. The G-Spot is also known as the Urethral Sponge and is located on the upper portion of the vaginal wall (check back in the future for a post on how to find the G-Spot).

G-Spot orgasms are often described as deeper and more intense than regular clitoral orgasms. It is elusive and often considered the Holy Grail of a woman's sexual pleasure, so explore and work G-Spot play into your sexual repertoire.

How To Finger A Girl: Mail Bag 2

2008-04-08T16:07:00.001-04:00

Dear How To Finger A Girl:

Q: which hole do you put it in?

A: When we discuss how to finger a girl, we are usually talking about the vagina for insertion. There is a lot more to fingering than just shoving fingers though. There will be a lot of technique that revolves around the clitoris and other sensitive areas in and around the vagina. See Meet The Vagina for a diagram of many of the female erogenous zones.

Is it normal to lick your fingers after fingering?

Q: During sex…my boyfriend after fingering me I saw him sucking his finger like it was something tasty. He also tried leading my hand so that I can masturbate myself and he himself but I didn’t do it because it seemed weird to me. Is that a weird thing to do? Fingering the girl and suck it?

A: This is a normal thing to do. Your boyfriend probably likes your taste because it's yours and it turns him on. It's also ok to masturbate in front of your boyfriend and to watch him as well, it sounds like he's just into a wide range of sexual activity. I say try out new things, it keeps things interesting and you might find some things you would have never guessed you'd like!

Will my girl get loose?

Q: can i make my girlfriends vagina un-tight if i finger it too much? she's 16 and i finger her like 1-3 times every 2 weeks, but not always.

A: Fingering can cause the vagina to loosen, but it's more likely to happen from years of sex than a few fingering sessions. The vagina is designed to accommodate a baby passing through it and then return to normal size, so a finger or two is less of a concern.

The short answer is: don't worry about it, finger away.

The longer answer: It will take a really long time to notice any difference in tightnessd, but a goo practice to get into is "kegel exercises". This is when the girl tightens and releases the muscles in the vagina on a regular basis to make them stronger and keep them tight.

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How To Finger A Girl: How To Finger Yourself

2008-04-05T11:15:00.004-04:00

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You want to know how to finger a girl, but what if that girl you want to finger is yourself? This article is for you.

Step one would be to familiarize yourself with your vagina. See our past entry Meet The Vagina for a detailed diagram. Grab a small mirror, lock the door, and take a look at what you got going on downstairs.

Here are some tips from about.com:

Get yourself in the mood for masturbation.
Relax as much as you can.Take a warm bath or have a glass of wine. Ensure your privacy: turn off the phone, lock the door, send the kids to a neighbor's. Find a comfy position. Most women start out lying on their backs, legs bent and spread apart, with feet on the ground. Remove most or all of your clothing.
Fantasize for masturbation.
Recall an exciting past sexual encounter or elaborate on a favorite sexual fantasy. If you need a boost, look at a sexy magazine, read an erotic story, or watch an adult video. Allow your mind to explore any images--anything goes as long as it heightens your excitement.
Explore all parts of your body.
Run your hands along parts of your body, lingering along areas that are more responsive to touch than others. Look at your genitals in a mirror (especially if you're unfamiliar with them) and caress the different parts to see what feels especially good. Find and touch your inner and outer labia, your clitoris, your vagina and your perineum.
Touch yourself.
Using one or two fingers, rhythmically stroke the different parts of your vulva, paying particular attention to your clitoris and labia. Experiment with different types of pressure, speed and motion. Try placing a finger on either side of the clitoris and stroking up and down, or placing two fingers on the clitoral hood and rubbing in a circular motion.
Experiment.
Try different types of touch: stroke, tickle, knead, pinch, or lightly pull your genitals. Try using one or several fingers, the palm of your hand, even your knuckles.
Build up excitement.
Learn to hold onto sexual excitement by building up and then reducing or temporarily stopping the stimulation. Pay attention to how your body is responding. It will tell you the particular stroke that feels best and when to pick up or slow down the tempo.
Breathe and rock.
Breathe deeply rather than hold your breath. This helps release the sexual energy, rather than fight it. Rock your pelvis as you would during intercourse. Rhythmically clench and release your PC muscle (using a dildo for vaginal penetration can help).
Getting over the top.
If your hand gets tired, give yourself a rest, switch hands, or try a vibrator. If you're on the brink of orgasm, but can't quite get over the hump, try altering you’re breathing, or focusing on a really hot fantasy. Give yourself extra stimulation: caress your nipples, or try also thrusting your other fingers or a dildo in and out of your vagina.
Ride the Wave.
As you begin to orgasm, continue the stimulation through the orgasm. Lighten up on the stimulation during the first extremely sensitive moments but keep it going to enjoy those little pleasurable aftershocks. Your first orgasm may feel like a blip or a blast, but the more you practice, the more variety you will experience.
Practice makes for perfect masturbation.
Don't worry if you don't come on your first try, keep practicing, or try some of the variations below.

Make sure to check back for more info on how to finger a girl.

How To Finger A Girl: Finding That Clit

2008-04-03T15:13:00.000-04:00

When learning how to finger a girl you'll learn that the clitoris (clit for short) is by far the fastest and easiest way to bring a girl to orgasm. Although everyone has heard of the clit, it still remains elusive to many guys. Some girls have never even seen their own clit, although they know it's there.

To the left is a diagram of what makes up the clit. The technical term, "glans clitoris", is the magic button you'll be looking for. It is above the vaginal hole, at the very top of where the inner lips meet. The clit won't start out as visible as it appears in the picture to the left. The sneaky thing about the clit is that it's usually covered by something called the clitoral hood.

The clitoral hood is what hides the goods. Imagine the hood as an evil thing that keeps you from something good. Look at Anakin on the right. You know he's good deep down inside, but you can hardly recognize him with that damn hood on. You need to pull the hood back and reveal that beautiful face.

Once you pull the hood back, you'll see the clit which is the size of a small bean. You have to be very careful with it because it doesn't have its own lubrication and it's very sensitive. Make sure to use lubrication in the form of your saliva, her vaginal lubrication, or ky jelly so you don't chafe the clit.

Now that you know how to find the clit, you can use some tips on what to do with it. Check back for more articles on how to finger a girl soon.

How To Finger A Girl: Video on How To Finger A Girl

2008-04-01T19:55:00.007-04:00

Watch this 10 part Video series to learn how to finger a girl and give powerful orgasms.

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How To Finger A Girl: Mail Bag 1

2008-03-28T01:16:00.000-04:00

Dear How To Finger A Girl:

Q: my boyfriend just started fingering me recently, and sometimes it hurts and sometimes it doesn't. Is it normal for it to hurt, i know this is a weird question, but it seems weird for it to hurt, its just a little finger...and yes i do wear tampons so im used to things being up there...

A: Many different things can be causing this. As the time of the month changes, so does the texture inside your vagina. The days leading up to, during, and after your period will have natural and sometimes thick lubrication, whereas other times of the month you may be naturally dryer.

The most important factor though is your state of arousal. If he goes right for insertion without any other foreplay, your body probably won't be ready for it. Have your boyfriend stimulate the rest of your body first, and also talk to you in a sexual way. The brain is the most powerful sexual organ in the body!

Hey How To Finger A Girl, what about periods:

Q: Can you finger a girl if she's having her period? Is there ever a time of month that's not a good time? My girlfriend told me that it wasn't a good time. Is this because she didn't want to, or something else?

A: Yes, you can finger a girl any time she lets you. Your girlfriend might just be uncomfortable with the "blood" situation and may get creeped out about the thought of your hand looking like it got caught in a garbage disposal as you take it out from between her legs. If you don't mind a little blood, make sure you tell her so, and then if there is some blood definitely reassure her that you don't mind. Lots of girls actually get very horny during their period due to increased levels of hormones in their bodies.

Clubbin + Fingerin?

Q: I heard that at clubs, guys finger the girls at the club while they grinding (dancen) with them. When is it okay to do this? Foam party, corner, how long should i wait to start fingering her and how do i know she will let me?

A: Like any other time, you can only finger a girl if she is ready and willing. If you're dancing in a club and thinking about going down south, first run some tests to see if she's likely to let you. When dancing from behind, have your hands slowly make their way from her hips toward the inner thighs. Don't be obvious, your hands should be constantly moving as you dance but you should also definitely be sending her a message. If she doesn't stop you in your tracks, you likely have gotten a green light. Find a shady corner or slip into a bathroom stall and go to work.

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How To Finger A Girl: Quick Tips

2008-03-28T00:50:00.000-04:00

Here are some quick hits to keep in mind during your journey to find out how to finger a girl:

Bring on some arousal before insertion. Don't just start jamming fingers in unwelcome places. Increase her body's responsiveness by making her more emotionally and physically comfortable with you. Kissing the neck or massaging the body will make vaginal play easier, believe it or not.

Clip those finger nails! We're talking about a highly sensitive area here that is very responsive to pleasure and pain. So keep your nails short to avoid any unwelcome pain.

Lots of fingers isn't necessarily better. A common rookie move when trying to figure out how to finger a girl is to have this mental conversation: "Well if one finger feels good, then four fingers must feel like heaven!" This might be true for some girls, but usually not. And certainly not if you try to do it too soon without proper lubrication.

Harder and faster isn't necessarily better. Similar to the point above, there is a natural tendency to get swept up in the excitement and start blasting away like a jackhammer. Sometimes this is ok, but a lot of girls actually like rhythmic movements regardless of the speed. Plowing away too hard can actually take away from the girl's stimulation. Don't rush, if something feels good for your partner then she probably just needs consistent pressure and time in order to reach that big O.

Don't be afraid of bringing in outside help. There might be some items that help out in your partner's pleasure. Try using some lubricant like KY Jelly if it takes her a while to get wet or if she just likes it. Vibrators can be fun if you can get over your jealousy. And if she has a female friend that can pitch in by giving her a topless massage while you go to work downtown, then who are you to interfere?

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How To Finger A Girl: Meet the Vagina

2008-03-27T00:42:00.003-04:00

If you are going to learn how to finger a girl, you are going to have to get familiar with your work space. Well, here it is in all its graphic glory.

When you were 11, you thought a vagina looked like this: \|/

Years later after some exploration, you realized there is a lot more going on down there. Unless you've stealthily searched through Health class textbooks, you probably haven't seen it quite as open as this.

And yet this is only the outside of the vaginal region. When leaning how to finger a girl there is a whole other world inside the vagina.

These are all erogenous zones that we will explore them more fully later on. The main point to take home here is that there are many areas that you should be focusing your attention on, and should not just go straight to jamming fingers in the vagina.

That's all for now on how to finger a girl. Come back for more, real soon.

How To Finger A Girl: Intro

2008-03-27T00:14:00.000-04:00

I hope you're ready for some powerful stuff.

This is not meant to be a raunchy or humorous blog. This is straight info shot directly into your brain. For whatever reason, you have an interest in bringing a female to a high level a physical pleasure using your hands. You may have a long term girlfriend and you want to share deeper sexual intimacy. Maybe you're a guy who wants to be able to give hordes of random girls the best one-night-stand of their lives. Or you could be a girl looking to understand your body more and step up your solo sessions.

Whoever you are and whatever your story, your end goal is that same. You want to hear uncontrollable screams of pleasure, and I will help you hear those screams.

We are going to explore parts of the female anatomy that you had no idea existed. I'm talking about erogenous zones that don't even have common slang terms...get ready to hear a lot of latin names.

This blog is designed to teach you how to finger a girl using a continuous series of posts. Check back frequently for more!